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3 years old, he / she went to kindergarten, and watched him / her back a little strong, but also joy and a little tiny hearts sad. Departure for a whole day, the children came running to see you happy, flutter in your arms. Tell you: Mom, I want you. At that moment, her child is like holding the whole world.
6 years old, he / she is in elementary school, the children finally go to school, this is how to remember things, children life and thus opened a new chapter, no one thought, this is the first step out of our children. He / she has become accustomed to on the day you separate from, and he / she likes to go to school every day, which he / she prefers life. Indeed, he / she sometimes said: Mom, so bored at home, no kids and I play.
12 years old,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], he / she is the junior high school, and even some begin boarding school, once a month or a few months back home, see above a surface. He / she began to no longer rely on you, or even that he / she likes, and against you. Do you want to help him / her to do something, he / she said: Mom, I think I can. I suddenly felt this sentence makes us feel good lost, the child is no longer needed us?
18 years old, he / she left you to go to college,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], come back twice a year. Good come back a few days ago, the family refrigerator to fit in, and for him / her to prepare a variety he likes to eat. But come back to make a face to face, he / she was busy and the students went to meet friends. From then on, you afraid to hear the sentence is: Mom, I do not get home for dinner, eat your own.
After graduation, the children remain in the distance work, it is difficult to come back a year once. Finally a trip back a few days left. You most looking forward to is the child's phone,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], I hope, the children say to you: Mom, I'm good, you take care of themselves. This is enough.
children married, even half time to go home to your relatives, the children come back less. Old married couple you have become accustomed to at home, but you most want to hear kids say to you: Mom, I'm home for Chinese New Year this year, ah!
When children have his / her own children, you are no longer his / her family members, his / her family of three (or a n mouth), the have not included you.
and we slowly got used to this day. But the habit of nothing else to do, often looking through the album, take a look at our own family of three, regardless of the child where you are, he / she will always be irreplaceable in our family a member.
Yes ah, in fact, the days when the children around,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], how happy we are. But sometimes we are still complaining. Complain because he / she, you do too much sacrifice. Complained that he / she wakes up at night and old, so you sleep well, complaining that he / she is causing trouble, complaining that he / she loves like a baby grow up, complaining that he / she is sick, make you a lot of trouble, complaining about in order to develop his / her ,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], spent too much energy and money ... But if you think about it, 10 years later, even if you want, no chance. Children will stop growing, this time he had no habit of this period. You are not always in his / her post-weaning feed him miss the days of feeding, but then you feel tired but very hard for a good tired. Is not often to see his / her hands before eating cute pictures of that, but you have to stop giving it to him / her to worry about washing hands thoroughly. Is not in his / her faded Children, especially after missing his / her voice had milk milk gas station, but he / she had very spoiled when you are not available. When children go to school is not after your special miss him / her stick around in your day, but you are always thinking before he / she wants to go to school when ah.
time can not turn the clock back, went to be forever gone. Children can stay in the days around how rare and valuable. Because of this, I am more of the treasure every moment with the kids, let me no matter what, are thankful. Thank you God for giving me such a child, let me share with testimony that he / she grew every moment. No matter how many difficulties brought me, annoyance, or even defeat, no matter how much I have lost sleep, time, money,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], energy, I am still open-minded, because this is God's gift.
when his / her side every day, I will let him / her feel happy, but also let us have a good memory. I will not give him / her too much pressure, bound, not to give him / her tie him down, obstruct, but I will keep discipline, the investment will do what to do, because I have responsibilities and obligations to teach him / ability of her life, so that he / she fly free and happy to Japan. At the same time, I will tell him / her, even when all the roads are not feasible, there is a way you can navigate the, it is home. . . . . . . .